Relationship vs 'youngness' !

Assalamualaikum..

hi. Hey.

Okay, this time, i would like to share about relationship vs youngness!
ok. youngness tu vocabulary baru yg sy buat sendiri.. but what I really mean is, hubungan versus masa muda
tu la maksud dy lebih kurang.
Sekarang kan, menjadi 1 trend d fb.. smua orang trutama nya remaja between 12-17 years old mesti buat relationship status d FB. apakah???
lepas tu, kalau setakat 'in a relationship'.. its ok..tp, ada yg married, engaged and what so ever..

ok, peringatan, this entry bukannya mau menyibuk hal orang.. just an observation to the youngster nowadays... Best sgt ka relationship tym muda ni adik2?

hihi.. adakah adik2 bca blog sy? but its ok.. as long i can give my personal opinion regarding this issue.

apa yg sy fkir, bila tengok fb dorang ni, ada yg patah hati tym muda2 lagi.. 13-15 years old suda patah hati, sedih, frust menonggeng la bagai.. yg 16-17 years old pulak.. siap maki2 d fb lagi bila boyfriend/girlfriend ada orang lain..

apa yg sy sdih, because , dorang tidak manfaatkan masa muda dorang utk enjoy with friends..
omg.. kalau sy masih muda lagi, sy mesti abiskan masa dgn jalan2 dengan kawan, picnic with family and buat semua benda2 yg extreme (flying fox, camping, water sports) dgn kwn2 or family.. punya syiok tu..

tapi, remaja zaman sekarang, lebih suka bagi full commitment dengan relationship yg entah ke mana tu..

well, zaman sy remaja dlu, memang la ada crush juga, tp x adalah sy or kawan2 sy yg frust sampai tak percayakan lelaki la,  tak nak idup la.. watever..
kitorang kalau frust pun, paling2 pegi outing makan ice cream, ambil cuti peristiwa and jalan-jalan pegi hospital and kenakan lelaki tu balik.. ok. itu kejam..

tapi remaja zaman sekarang.. sorry to say.. but WHY YOUR LIFE IS SOOOO BORINGGG??

Enjoying dinner with friendss!!

ckit-ckit sy buka fb, mestilah fall in love bagai nak rak..
kejap lagi, nak break siap ngan maki-maki sekali...
WTH???
okey..
but, its ok.. I respect your own decision of life..
but, yah.. this is just few advices as your 'kakak'..i am 21years old by the way..and these advices based on my own experience as former teenagers..

- waktu muda-muda (12-17) years, memang u all can commit to relationship, but not too hard la.. because,, well said, korang masih muda lagi. Nanti ramai jumpa orang lagi, bila masuk U or any IPTA, u can find better guy/girls to become your soulmate..

- 12-17 years old is time for enjoy with family and friends, nanti bila korang suda masuk 18 -20 years old, kena hantar study jauh2, baru time tu mau sedih sbb rindu family and friends.. time-time ngan family sibuk pula nak bercouple2..

- Kalau dah tercommit any serious relationship, you can always continue, but try hard not to mix between your relationship and studies.. sebab masih muda lagi kan.. there is no wrong for you to try and error in your life.. but just be careful..

- To the girls, certain guys just want to flirt with you for certain reasons.. but, after all, they will find another girls to become their actual girlfriend.. kalau d sekolah ni, biasanya, cinta monyet la.., biasala lelaki.. they just want to have girlfriend so that they have friends to hang out, or maybe to make them become popular in school.. lebih-lebih adik-adik kak yg cantik2 ni.. be careful... But, if the relationship continue after school years, and the guy tries hard to find you again and want to commit a serious relationship, he might be serious in your relationship.. (tapi jarang tau jumpa lelaki mcm ni)..

- apa-apa pun, just be the best person that you can be. If you become the best students, who have the most great achievement in academic and co-curriculum., for sure the guys out there will berebut-rebut want u guys.. So, just be the best for your family and friends.. Rugi tau kalau muda-muda lagi commit serious relationship.. x sempat pun kenal orang lain, dah ada yg sibuk-sibuk nak control..

- Nanti dah masuk 19 years old - 21 mcm sy ni, then maybe you can start to find your serious mate.. haha.. but.. not too serious la.. but, many of my friends.. find their soulmate in this age.. sbb time tu dah masing-masing d menara gading,, and then, maybe you can use that time to commit in serious relationship.. but jangan serious sgt.. because,, kita x bole mudah sgt percayakan orang.. okeyyy??

By the way, this is just advices from me based on my experience.. No offends, I just want to make all of you aware about what happen nowadays. Seriously, kalau bole balik zaman remaja , zaman sekolah menengah, saya mau sgt jadi student balik.. syiok sgt bah tu zaman sekolah menengah...

Ok. Im start to miss my friends from high school!.. sekarang ni dah nak jadi cikgu dah.. cannot enjoy too much anymore.. haha.. ok.. nasihat sy ni bukan semua boleh pakai.. but , buang yang keruh, ambil yang jernih okeyss...

Aktiviti tym Bina Insan Guru Phase 1.. siok ba extreme water sports ni!!

XoXo..
Miss E.